To love is to support, regardless, no questions asked: unconditionally. And we know from taiji that I can only be an effective support if I am supported in turn: the weight of the Other can only be borne if I first trust the Earth to bear me. Everything always comes back to the Earth. And so, it becomes clear: Destiny and Earth are the same – my destiny is to come down to Earth, to leave my fantasies and return to Earth, in death and in life.