The Otherness of the Other is another name for the Internal which is another name for the Energetic which we also call Spirit or the Real or the Deep. These are all names for different ways of approaching the beautiful but terrifying reality of connectedness. Terrifying because I can only connect to connectedness once I've jettisoned my baggage, my self, and all notions of self-defence. In the realm of connectedness we are all naked and all equal – all differences dwindle in the face of such awe-inspiring and humbling beauty.