Students complain that they can't or don't feel energy. I tell them that they can and they do but they either reject those feelings or fail to notice them. They have already decided what energy should feel like long before they've had a chance to feel it. If I were to tell them that energy makes one light-headed and nauseous would they still be keen to feel it? Or tender and tearful, or constantly on the verge of collapse? It takes years to learn to live in and with energy.