Mind is in your energy not in your head. 

Or, more specifically: small mind is in the head; big mind is in the energy. Small mind calculates, plans, worries. Big mind dwells, feels, ruminates. The basic difference is one of time. The small mind is hasty, impatient, tense, and so is restricted to chronological time – a present coloured by a past, moving into a future. The big mind, on the other hand, is slow, fluid, relaxed, and so not restricted to the present but ever seeping into eternity.